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27 February 2014

the latest version of asymal jr is here..

salam readers.. as i promised to share about my delivery experience, i hope you will gain some knowledge about delivery process since there is a significant difference of approach in UK & Malaysia... before i start my writing, just bare in your mind, previously all my children were born in private hospitals in Malaysia.. here, this was my first time giving birth in public hospital, in UK. so, let's compare.. hihihi..

the contraction started from 4am 18th january 2014.. it was a week break after exam (for those who took exam.. me is excluded) before a new semester begins.. From 4am - 2pm, the contraction was consistent with 10 minute interval.. it became stronger after that.. around 4pm my water was broke & at that time my contraction was approx around 3-5 minute interval.. so i called the hospital & rushed to Princess Anne Hospital..




ahmad uzayr firhad
we safely arrived to the hospital around 4.40pm & directly went to broadlands birth centre (kira wad bersalin la nih).. with confident i told them that i want to try water birth & they escorted me to a pool room.. then the midwife asked me to get my urine sample & she took my pad for further examination.. but unfortunately i did not get the opportunity to try water birth since my color of amniotic fluid was not clear..the colour was yellowish range.. she explained that maybe the baby had poo inside the womb.. so we carried on with the normal method...hwaaa... nangessss... ingat nak try water birth kt sini... so we went to a labour room... for your information, labour rooms & pool rooms are not in the same level..

another firhad in the house
in the labour room, they put me in monitoring condition with belts on my tummy.. i asked them to remove the belts because i felt uncomfortable.. but they couldn't do so.. they explained politely how important to them to monitor my condition closely since they suspected that baby has had bowel movement before labour.. after a q&a session in regards my previous deliveries, the they did a VE (vaginal examination) to check my progress.. just imagine after more than 1 hour i reached the hospital, baru nak check jalan.. in Malaysia, the situation could be very different.. they will perform VE right after your reach hospital.. meaning ko sampai je hospital, terus di jolok nyerr.. the best part was, after they did the VE, they said that i was ready to deliver since i already 8cm dilated.. nah kau!!! debushhh...

widad & new brother
sudah cukur
during my antenatal check up, i chose to be 'active' which mean the mother is take control of the situation & not the midwife.. the midwife only do her job when we are ready to deliver... maksudnyer ko dah rasa nk teran, berak & kencing baru ko panggil midwife tu.. setakat ko tunjuk muka kental tahan contraction tu, dia buat derkkk jerr... midwife x jauh pun.. hujung kaki ko jerr... dia just monitor dr jauh dgn student tu sbb ko pilih active labour kan... because this was a 5th child, so i know the right time to push.. actually, i wasn't push the baby out.. just control your breathing & the baby will come out without any pushing.. they push themselves..
the student & midwife
sambung cerita.. english please... so i had 3rd tear degree.. help yourself by google it.. i'm lazy to explain.. i had a few stitches.. i didn't face any complication.. uri lengkap.. bleeding rate was normal.. so, i rested in the labour room about 3 hours.. the student offered me some drink & biscuits.. never say no to rezeki.. makan dengan gelojoh sekali even it were a cup of tea &  a small pack of cracker.. rasa macam sedap gilerr.. then, they took me to the ward... spouse is not allowed to accompany their wife.. the baby will be place in the baby cot, beside mother's bed.. uzayr is good boy.. he doesn't make a sound during that night.. so i got a quality sleep in the hospital.. pendek kan cerita.. ahkak dibenarkan pulang keesokan harinya.. ahkak dalam wad berkain batik ajer.. sempoiii gettew..

fresh from womb


so the baby's head came out but the body still inside.. remember the student?? so the midwife was busy explaining something to the student & suddenly i felt another contraction.. i just couldn't help myself to give another gentle push.. hambik kau.. tergezutt member 2 org tu.. tetiber je dh kuar satu badan.. actually the midwife told me to listen to her direction.. meaning kalu dia tak suruh teran lagi, jangan le teran dulu.. ate, mana nk tahan ye dakk?? kepala dah keluar, tapi badan sangkut lagi.. bile rasa contraction je, terus push.. tak tunggu dah arahan selanjutnyerr... but, ada but nyerr.. the consequence is you might be end up with higher tear degree.. paham?? tak paham my english?? i know that i'm using advanced english.. that's why not many readers understand what i'm trying to explain... wakakakkaka..

the latest pic.. taken while writing this entry
now, enjoy the pictures.. malas nak tulis.. before i forget, here, they do not implement makan ubat berak anymore.. they said if you poo during delivery, that's ok & it's normal.. don't feel embarrass.. kalau kt Malaysia, ko dah kena sumpah seranah plus kutukan masyarakat midwife & doktor.. hahhahaha...




26 February 2014

what a loooooooooooooooooooong silence..


salam readers.. Sorry for the super long silence.. I guess many of you are wondering where I was been missing.. well.. Yeah, I'm still here.. Struggling with a family and student life in Southampton.. For readers who are not in my friend list in Facebook, there is a new addition in my family members.. I'm a mother of 5 children.. The youngest baby was born on 18th January 2014 around 6.46pm during winter season.. It was a fresh experience by giving birth in another country specifically in the UK.. Now, I'm 35++ days of my confinement period.. i will write about my delivery experience later..

being a student & a mother is not an easy task.. i only managed to get a total 'pure' confinement ritual around 2 weeks.. the rest is totally absurd.. After 2 weeks, I started going to class as usual with bengkung.. It is a 2nd semester now.. i have a lot of assignments to submit next week.. 4 assignments to be exact.. but the LAZY mode is highly activated at the moment.. i wish my english writing as good as malay writing, but it is not.. nangessss kejap..

oh, by the way, i just changed my blog template.. i'm still do not know to remove the button bar or how to hyperlink it.. so if you click any button, you will got nothing.. actually, i found one cool template in the internet.. unfortunately, it is a premium template.. we have to purchase it first & the provider will give the code.. i will not spend USD20 just to buy a template for my personal blog.. But if I'm an entrepreneur, definitely i will buy it for my company website..

the current weather is sunny.. i think the winter is almost over & the spring will come sooner.. the flowers begin to bloom.. during winter, there was no snow in Southampton.. nangesssss... so we didn't have a chance to experience the snow... cryyyy again... it was only heavy wind & rain.. even there was no snow, the condition was super cold for me who have java blood.. orang java kan tak tahan sejuk.. but, the best thing is i found that the theory of hujan batu is true.. yeah.. hujan batu is exist.. it is like a small ice (diameter approx 3-5mm) falling from the sky.. 

one more thing i want to share before i forget.. i think many of you, you & you who kaki novel already read Melur Jelita masterpiece Awak Suka Saya Tak, I Love You, Stupid and My Precious Iris, khennn??? Me myself only discovered about this last month & ask my friend to bring ILUS & MyPI to UK... how do i know about the novel?? i found a online novel website & it publish a part of the novel.. so I accidently read ILUS in the website & totally fall in love with ILUS & MyPI.. after i got the novels, i finished my reading in 4 days.. i was only get chance to read it during night time because i need to rush to my class on day time remember? now, i'm a big fan of Melur Jelita & become her follower in facebook.. the good news from her recent post is, i guess, she will launch her new novel in the near future.. so, don't forget to prepare tissue kawan2.. for those who never read these novels, READ ITTT!!!! berbaloi2 even you feel so depress about the thickness.. yezzzz... both novels are thick.. imagine you read the whole cambridge dictionary.. macam tu la ketebalannya..

i think i better stop now.. the reason why i'm using english as my medium of language is i just want to improve my level of writing evethough i know there is no bombasticos words or complex sentence in my writing.. who need the complex when you have the simple one?? ini pun akhkak gigih dik oiii tulis dlm english.. ahkak rasa my grammar is going to drain.. lantak ler you oulzzz want to laugh or not.. janji ahkak berusaha & all my lecturer can understand what i'm trying to explain in my assignments.. for your information, my coursework doesn't has exam.. the evaluation is totally depends on the assignments.. oh, one more thing.. i feel so relief to start blogging again.. i really miss my blog world.. blogging is rock...




27 August 2013

Hadiah latihan persekutuan



salam pembaca... hari ini ahkak jah nak cerita psl hadiah latihan persekutuan atau lebih popular dgn nama HLP di kalangan penjawat awam... adapun HLP ini merupakan biasiswa yang diberikan oleh kerajaan kepada penjawat awam peringkat pengurusan dan profesional untuk belajar ke peringkat master atau phd.. bukan setakat biasiswa shj yg ditawarkan, penjawat awam juga entitle cuti belajar bergaji penuh bersekali dgn elaun2 tertentu...

bagaimana untuk memohonnya?? adapun permohonan HLP ini hanya keluar setahun sekali sahaja... selalunya pada bulan april... syarat2 permohonan HLP berubah2 setiap tahun... jadi kena tengok syarat2 nya sebelum  mohon... ada syarat kelayakan umur, syarat berapa tahun berkhidmat dll.. pastu kena sedia paper work utk course yg kita nk minta... ada borang yg perlu ditandatangan oleh Ketua Jabatan... then Jabatan akan forward kan permohonan anda ke JPA... 

selepas itu, permohonan anda dipertimbangkan... kalau ada rezeki akan dipanggil temuduga.. temuduga pula berlangsung di 2/3 tempat.. dulu ahkak jah ditemuduga kt uniten... ada yg kena kt SPA.. temuduga juga berlangsung lebih dr seminggu utk habiskan semua candidate.. bayangkan ramainya yg minta HLP...

penemuduga 3 orang terdiri drp academician.. anda tidak berseorangan dlm bilik temuduga... biasanya 3 calon ditemuduga serentak... bahasa yg digunakan ikut penemuduga... mcm ahkak dulu, mula2 english pastu bm... habis temuduga tu tawakkal je la...

bg yg apply utk phd, sila prepare presentation utk dipersembahkan kpd penemuduga... masa tu anda akan ditanya psl research method, sampling, stats etc... be prepared kpd yg nk buat research... yg buat coursework sila jawab soklan penemuduga dgn confident yer...

keputusan temuduga biasa 2 bulan baru keluar... boleh check tru online.. ada sesetengah tu, minta oversea tapi keputusan keluar local.. x pernah pulak minta local, lulus oversea... bg yg kes2 sebegitu, anda diberikan masa untuk buat rayuan dlm tempoh yg ditetapkan dgn justifikasi yg kukuh...

selepas itu, anda akan dipanggil utk menghadiri satu majlis... iaitu majlis penyampaian surat tawaran SEMENTARA HLP... hari tu buat kt perbadanan putrajaya... x ingat nama dewannya... masa ni lah anda dibekalkan kit.. ada borang2 yg perlu diisi dlm tu.. & perlu dikembalikan kpd Bahagian Modal Insan JPA...

selepas tu anda diwajibkan HADIR & LULUS QA... kursus sebulan setengah di INTAN... ada exam, tugas kumpulan & presentation... sila enjoy during course ini...

bukan hanya QA shaja HADIR & LULUS, BTN pun sama jugak bg yg nk sambung ke oversea.. yg local x perlu g BTN.. di BTN ada group discussion, ceramah & exam..

dalam masa yg sama, anda perlu la apply uni.. kalau yg local, semua uni korang boleh apply... tapi for those yg nk g oversea, sila la pilih uni dlm senarai JPA shj.. kalau x JPA advice tukar ke uni local.. unless kalau ada justifikasi yg betul2 kukuh... 

ahkak sebenarnya amat2 beruntung... ada member2 yg apply 2-3 tapi x dapat... cubaan cuba jaya ahkak kali pertama berjaya nampaknya... sangat2 bersyukur dgn nikmat Allah ini.. walaupun pd mulanya berat jugak nk aplly sbb malas dh nk study.. namun atas sokongan mr hubby, diteruskan jugak memohon hlp tanpa mengharapkan apa2... untung sabut timbul, untung batu tenggelam kekdahnya...







Salam aidilfitri

assalamualaikum pembaca sekelian,

masih belum terlambat untuk ahkak jah mengucapkan salam aidilfitri kepada semua.. dah ler bulan ramadhan x dan nk ucap apa2.. x sempat deq non.. bizi bebenor...


jangan ditanya pasal gambar raya.. tahun ni punya la kelam kabut... kamera tertinggal kt kelantan... maka disahkan bahawa ini lah raya paling sempoi sekali... xde ambik2 gambar pelbagai... namun demikian... jeng jeng jeng... gigih yer kami satu keluarga besar beratur tunggu giliran ambil gambar whole family kt kedai gambar... tapi gambarnyer x ambik lagi..ada lg kt kedai...

adapun kesibukan yg melanda ini berpunca daripada persiapan untuk menyambung pelajaran... terkejar2 nk buat tb test di penang pd hari raya ke 5... sampai penang doktor kata x boleh buat pulak sbb peknen below 5 bulan... nasihat dia suruh tunggu hingga kandungan mencecah 5 bulan which is after 9/9/13... mula2 ahkak jah ko ni rileks ajer...

pastu one week lepas start keja mula la otak ni mula berfikir.. ku sudah apply visa online pada 4/8/13.. application yg dh lengkap diisi online kena submit within 30 days... maka kegelabahan berlaku lagi di situ kerana kandungan belum mencecah 5 bulan, x leh buat tb test.. otak mula ligat cari solusi...

so ahkak decided to call life care, one of UKBA panel hosp for tb test, di bangsar.. explain about my pregnancy etc.. alhamdulillah kt life care x perlu buat appoinment pun... so on 20/8/13 ahkak jah ambik flight kul 8.00am..smpai life care around 10.45am.. org ramai giler.. siap jam 2.30pm..

then gi putrajaya utk submit agreement kt jpa.. sampai sana terus jpa bg surat tawaran tetap... urusan selesai jam 4.10 petang... tggu member abih miting... kul 5 gi putrajaya central... member hantar... gi lcct.. & naik flight kul 7.40pm... esoknya masuk kerja spt biasa...

masuk opis je terus bukak website vfs utk booking appointment submit visa... ahkak pilih tarikh 30/8/13.. maka g wat visa pd hari jumaat ni.. harap2 semua ok...

sungguh mencabar jugak proses ke luar negara ini..harap dipermudahkan-Nya.. amin...





12 June 2013

postgraduate programme



Salam pembaca kesayangan.. hari ni ahkak jah nk bercerita sedikit sebanyak mengenai Hadiah Latihan Persekutuan (HLP) ini... bg yg x berapa familiar, HLP ini merupakan biasiswa kpd penjawat awam bg melanjutkan pelajaran di peringkat master & PhD.. antara keistimewaan pemegang biasiswa ini adalah cuti bergaji penuh beserta elaun2 mengikut tempat belajar masing2...

alhamdulillah ahkak jah telah dianugerahkan HLP bg pengajian tahun 2013 di luar negara... fyi, surat tawaran JPA hanya menyatakan bhw 'anda berjaya HLP dlm bidang bla bla bla luar negara/dalam negara'... maka sesiapa yg dpt luar negara tu, ikut korang la nk apply di negara apa asalkan university yg korang pohon tu memenuhi kriteria JPA...

oleh kerana ahkak memohon untuk sambung dlm bidang social policy, maka antara university dalam senarai JPA adalah University University of Kent, University of Bath, University of Southampton, Oxford University, University College of London etc... maka setelah ditimbang2, ahkak apply university of southampton atau lebih glemer lg dikenali sbg soton..








university ni ada 3 campus ke 4 campus ntah..tapi quite near to each other.. agaknyer ler.. hahahha... tengok kt gugel mep, mcm dekat je campus dia...

in general, southampton ni kire dlm negeri Hampshire... kedudukannya di selatan UK.. kalau dr sini nk g London, dlm 1.30 jam naik tren..pastu dia dekat dgn Portsmouth... yg lain2 tu, adik manes boleh gugel sendiri.. pastu ahkak boleh la buat kesimpulan, soton ni kalau kt malaysia ni mcm setaraf dgn shah alam la.. sewa rumah mahal babe kat sana...

i'm actually dh terima offer dr univ... now tunggu CAS utk buat visa.. for those yg study in UK, derang kena provide Tuberculosis test report utk visa... & visa kalau x silap dlm RM1500 seorg...

kalau kita gugel2, banyak jugak tempat yg menarik di soton ni..kalau korang nk tahu, RMS Titanic (alaa.. kapal titanic yg tenggelam tu) bermula pelayaran drp Port of Souhtampton pd 10 April 1912 dengan jumlah penumpang dan krew 2,200 orang...

sini ada WestQuay shopping mall.. antara brand yg ada levi's, bodyshop, zara, miss selfrigde, pandora, aldo, apple store, gap, h&m etc... pastu ader bargate centre, east street shopping centre, marlands centre dll... yeay!! x sabar nk explore shopping complex kt sana... muahahhahah...

ok la.. nanti aii tulis lagi.. bye..







27 May 2013

ganu kitteer...

salam semua.. have you ever try ICT in terengganu?? yess... ict for ikan celup tepung... it is famous dishes even dh jadi trademark bg mereka yg drive along ganu beach... banyak giler kedai yg ada... pilih jerr.. kebetulan masa kami singgah tu, the famous ICT tutup pulak kedai dia.. so we chosed apa yg ada je lar... janji dpt mentekedarah...

since the location betul2 tepi pantai, bebudak ni pun x menumpukan perhatian terhadap hidangan yg disediakan... sebaliknya mata sorang2 tu asyik renung ke laut... nk mandi lettewww... apa pun hidangan tetap habis... yezzaaa... dihabiskan oleh mak bapak budak2... hahhahaha...

apa pun enjoys the pics... kami juga jalan2 di pasar payang sebelum iteww...



















birthday party for zulfah

salam semua readers.. alhamdulillah.. pejam celik, pejam celik, si kecik ni dh pun nk masuk 2 tahun... & she has a younger brother too.. hihihi.. she is a big sister now.. eventhough still imagine that she is the bongsu of family.. really manja & sometimes jeles kt her younger brother..

this year we cannot celebrate her birthday during the exact birthday date.. so we decided to organise a small birthday party before her birthday together with my MIL's birthday & my BIL's anniversary.. i baked some red velvet cuppies & cake.. disebabkan guna oven orang, maka cuppies mengalami sedikit kerentungan.. then masa baked cake, baru la adjust ikut oven tu.. the cake was delicious.. the cuppies sedikit dry & hangit.. but the kids makan je smpai habis cuppies tu sbb terpesona dgn decorating frosting dia... hahahhahah...

let's the pictures do the talking... ahkak mu ni pun bukannyer rajin sgt nk tulis panjang2.. hihihi..